ないで details
write + not + without doing
kakanai de
without doing; don't (do)
meaning: without writing
今朝は何も食べないで家を出た。
kesa wa nani mo tabenai de ie o deta.
I left the house this morning without eating anything. neutral
あ、それまだ捨てないで!
a, sore mada sutenaide!
Ah, don't throw that away yet! casual
Examples
without doing X — a negative side-circumstance attached to the main verb
今朝は何も食べないで家を出た。
kesa wa nani mo tabenaide ie o deta.
I left the house this morning without eating anything. neutral
封筒は開けないで、そのままお持ちください。
fuutou wa akenaide, sonomama o mochi kudasai.
Please bring the envelope as it is, without opening it. formal
don't — sentence-final plea stopping the listener
あ、それまだ捨てないで!
a, sore mada sutenaide!
Ah, don't throw that away yet! casual
Formation
{V-nai}でattaches to ない-form
Notes
Related patterns
Similar
Both stop the listener — てはいけない states the rule bluntly; ないで(ください) frames the same stop as a request, which is what strangers actually hear.
Opposite
- ながらplain-antonym
Same adverbial slot, flipped polarity — ないで removes the side action from the scene, ながら runs it alongside the main verb.
Lookalikes
Both open with the ない-form, but ないで hangs its clause on the following verb as manner (食べないで出かけた — went out without eating), while なくて closes it off as a reason (食べられなくて残念); each usually sounds wrong in the other's slot.
ないでください is ないで plus the imperative ください — mid-sentence ないで is the adverbial "without doing"; sentence-finally both do request duty, and casual speech drops ください entirely, collapsing the pair.
ないで is "without doing", not obligation — easy to misread at reading speed.